話 不 投機 半 句 多

同样是观点甚至立场不同,为什么有的讨论会给人“激荡灵魂”“头脑风暴”的感觉,而有的讨论让人觉得“话不投机半句多”?

其实对具有表达欲的人类来说,要表达清楚一个复杂的观点并不容易,他不仅需要对自己的内心有充分的认知,还得避免表达的盲区,才能把自己的观点传达给别人。

但一个人仅靠单向的表达很难做到这一点,所以需要和别人讨论自己的观点。第一轮轮他先粗略地说出自己的观点,倾听者有不理解的地方就发问,他再补充,来回反复好多轮。这样一轮一轮地互动,表达者发现自己一直表达不出来的观点,居然在和倾听者的互动中充分表达清楚了,内心会有惊喜——这就是激荡灵魂的感觉。

在一场互动交流中,倾听者也会适时表达自己的观点,对方也会发问,当两个人的观点都得到充分表达,但发现观点迥异时,就会触及到观点背后的立场认定。这时会出现两种情况,一种是觉得道不同不相为谋,这叫分道扬镳,是话不投机的终点版;一种是觉得发现了更大的世界,原来有人是这么想的,太震撼了——这就是头脑风暴。

所以说啊,深层次的话不投机不仅需要观点不同,还需要彼此无法接受。

上面讨论的是最为完整的话不投机,只有在涉及三观内核的讨论中才会出现。但实际的讨论中,可能很难走到终点,因为很多倾听者缺乏耐心,抱着自己的成见去听别人的观点,别人的10分观点才表达了5分,他就愤怒地说“原来你是这样的人”,交流就此中止,话不投机会提前到来。

而日常生活中,很多观点不涉及三观的内核,比较浅显,一句话两句话就能表达清楚,这样的表达给人带来的成就感很小,对自我认知的帮助也不大,所以这种浅显的观点碰撞,要么达成认同,要么话不投机半句多,很难出现激荡灵魂和头脑风暴的效果。

明白了话不投机和灵魂激荡的原理,对生活最大的帮助在于,如果你想深入一个人的灵魂,就得耐心地和他交流,不要在别人还没把他的观点表达全面时就急于下结论,那样你永远都收获不到激荡灵魂的体验。

第一章 人際溝通
1. 一個好的開始
2. 打開話匣子
3. 不要老把自己擺第一
4. 「潮」出時尚味
5. 客套是種優雅
6. 表情會說話
7. 用傾聽為你說話
8. 從感性的話開始講起
9. 說人之道,攻心為上
10. 懂得避諱
11. 避免交淺言深
12. 說話要緊扣重點
13. 說話要帶有感情
14. 製造共鳴
15. 問要問得巧
16. 答要答得妙

第二章 職場應對
17. 謹言慎行別大意
18. 懂得謙虛不炫耀
19. 送別人一頂高帽子
20. 別占盡了便宜
21. 開玩笑要有分寸
22. 難以啟齒的話該怎麼說
23. 自言自語也是種溝通
24. 不得罪人的拒絕方法
25. 如何拒絕人事請託
26. 對上司提建議的方法
27. 對上司提異議的方法
28. 跟上司說話的禁忌
29. 跟上司相處的技巧
30. 身為上司的領導魅力
31. 對下屬也要拍馬屁
32. 鼓勵下屬的方法
33. 正確的傳達口頭指示

第三章 衝突迴避
34. 為自己留有餘地
35. 批評的技巧
36. 忠言不用說盡
37. 罵人也要留面子
38. 有時無聲勝有聲
39. 太陽與北風
40. 以毒攻毒
41. 反唇相譏
42. 模糊焦點
43. 含沙射影
44. 裝蠢裝笨裝糊塗
45. 蠢言蠢行的意外效果
46. 妙尋臺階
47. 清楚解釋一次到位
48. 坦率道歉
49. 將錯就錯
50. 自我解嘲
51. 互不得罪的勸架要點

第四章 朋友互動
52. 話要說對時機
53. 說中聽的話
54. 用誇獎激勵人心
55. 拐個彎兒稱讚
56. 適度恭維
57. 插嘴很不禮貌
58. 白色的謊言
59. 注意舉止上的小細節
60. 避開八卦是非
61. 君子之交淡如水
62. 小心地雷
63. 不輕言許諾
64. 拒絕的藝術
65. 如何不尷尬的「借」

第五章 臨機巧變
66. 欲擒故縱
67. 暗渡陳倉
68. 聰敏機變
69. 曲直之變
70. 謬上加謬
71. 故弄玄虛
72. 請君入甕
73. 吊人胃口
74. 話中有話  
75. 大智若愚
76. 遊移其辭
77. 指鹿為馬
78. 自我解套
79. 輕鬆戲謔
80. 層層剝筍的說話技巧
81. 說服就像剝洋蔥
82. 答覆記者的提問
83. 幽默帶來歡樂
84. 字詞拆合妙趣橫生

第六章 親密關係
85. 譏笑他人徒惹禍患
86. 避免否定對方
87. 面對批評,回應批評
88. 嘮叨對家人沒有幫助
89. 爭吵內容要有建設性
90. 話要說得精確達意
91. 向對方道歉沒什麼
92. 別耽誤你不愛的人
93. 甜言蜜語是生活調味劑
94. 替所愛的人分憂解勞
95. 讚美讓對方愉悅
96. 意見也是種讚美
97. 別總是打破砂鍋問到底
98. 承諾是家人的定心丸
99. 從正向表達情緒

"酒逢知己千杯少,话不投机半句多"在英语中的翻译是什么?

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"酒逢知己千杯少,话不投机半句多" 英语 翻译

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酒逢知己千杯少,话不投机半句多 [jiǔ féng zhījǐ qiān bēi shǎo, huà bù tóujī bàn jù duō] [谚语俚语]

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Chinese English 英语 中 "酒逢知己千杯少,话不投机半句多" 的上下文示例

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酒逢知己千杯少话不投机半句多

Drinking 1000 cups of wine with a buddy is not enough whereas speaking half a word to a non-buddy is too much

句 話 定 在立的過員的 同意的情 況下去 執 政 、去施政,在這情況下, 兩 者 自 然 便可以配 合 。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

In other words, the executive authorities must govern with the consent or the absence of opposition from a majority of the members of the legislature.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

句話言格外正確。由 區不同資產類別的風險回報特質都不相同,相關系數可能較低甚至為負數,因而可帶 投資的效益,有助投資者降低部分下跌風險。

jpmorganam.com.hk

jpmorganam.com.hk

While risk and reward profiles

[...] for different asset classes vary across different geographical regions, the real benefit of diversification springs from low or negative correlations, which can help mitigate downside risk.

jpmorganam.com.hk

jpmorganam.com.hk

猜想句話意,但 我亦會問用意何在呢?

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

Though I would not wish to guess what this motive [...]

is, yet I would ask what the purpose of the motion is.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

我在以上段落曾間接提到這項敵人,「中產階級日漸擴大,社會富裕的初期跡象即為家庭購車」, 句話 映出文化因素,首先,社會認為搭公車是比較低下的交通方式,普納的公車乘客在社會階級大多較低,因為票價確實低廉,但在快速西方化與現代化的印度,平價與否 多不 位考量,而汽車即為地位最顯著的象徵,是故政府若 永續運輸,恐怕不易成功。

thisbigcity.net

thisbigcity.net

Pune’s bus customers tend to be from the lower classes of society, since the bus does present an incredibly affordable method of transport. In the rapidly westernizing and modernizing India, however, affordability often comes second to status, and the car is the strongest sign of status.

thisbigcity.net

thisbigcity.net

句話,有 盡量就有關課題向公眾提供資 料,以便進行具分析性、深入及全面的意見交流,而並非只嘗試使公 [...]

眾信服其建議的優點。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

In other words, instead of just trying [...]

to convince the public the merits of its proposal, the agency has provided as much

[...]

information as possible to the public on the subject so that the exchange of views can be analytical, thorough and comprehensive.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

羅許亦感嘆聯邦政府提供的「住宅與都市發展」(HUD)經 在部分區域甚至只剩當地房價的 指出,「 費都大幅減少」,而「社區發展公司」(CDC)等非營利組織提供社區各項服務,彌補官方遺漏的

thisbigcity.net

thisbigcity.net

Rush also lamented the lack of Federal funding for Housing and Urban Development

[...]

(HUD) grants in Cleveland, influxes

[...] that have dropped by as much as half for certain sections of the housing stock, “We’re seeing severe funding reductions across the board,” and community development corporations (CDCs) - not-for-profit organizations which provide services on a community level – are picking up some of the significant slack.

thisbigcity.net

thisbigcity.net

例一:傳媒在報導市民對最熟悉政治團體的最新評分結果時,可以說明「調查由港大民意研究計劃進行,在上月中以 18 歲或以上巿民,回應率六成七 … 在九 水平下,政治團體認知度的抽樣誤差少於三個百分比,支持度評分則少於1.8分。

hkupop.hku.hk

hkupop.hku.hk

Example One: In reporting POP's latest ratings of the most well-known political groups, it could be mentioned that "the survey was conducted by POP in the middle of

[...]

last month, over a

[...] thousand people aged 18 or above were interviewed by telephone at random, with a response rate of 67% … at 95% confidence [...]

level, the

[...]

sampling errors of political groups' recognition rates were less than 3 percentage points, while those of support ratings were less than 1.8 marks.

hkupop.hku.hk

hkupop.hku.hk

句話 討論這條例草案的時候,條例草案審議委員會的成員是知道勞工顧問委員會的意 見,而我亦相信,作為立法局議員,我們有權決定是否作出修訂, 被強迫 接受諮傳達的任何意見。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

In other words, Members of the Bills Committee realized the feelings of the Labour Advisory Board when the Bill was discussed and I presume that, as Legislative Councillors, we have the right to determine amendments or otherwise, and not to be forced to take on what the advisory bodies pass onto us.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

主席先生,本㆟謹此陳辭,支持馮智活議員的動議,也希望藉 想這 馮議員的動議繼續刻薄㆞批評。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

And I should like to take

[...] this opportunity to express my wish that his motion be spared further acrimonious criticism from so many people.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

楊司憲「有立法局就」的 句話 表傳統殖民㆞技術官僚的意識形態, 同時,楊司憲那種對有民意代表的立法局不信任的心態,更代表工商界,特別是現制度㆘ 既得利益集團的態度。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

His lack of confidence in this Council with elected representatives is typical of the attitude of the business community in general and the attitude of those with vested interests in particular.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

虽然全球粮食生产的多半 农民耕作的, 在撒哈拉以南非洲和加勒比这一比例更是高达 80%,然而,她们在耕种者中却是 属于最穷困的,这是因为她们往往没有土地产权和土地保有权, 规的银 行服务和贷款,通政府的农 技术和销售安排方案中得到好处。

daccess-ods.un.org

daccess-ods.un.org

Even though women

[...] farmers cultivate more than half of global food production, amounting to as much as 80 per cent in sub-Saharan Africa and the Caribbean, they are among the most disadvantaged cultivators because they tend to lack land titles and tenure, are not able to access formal banking and credit and typically do not benefit from Government [...]

programmes for the provision of agricultural inputs, technologies and marketing arrangements.

daccess-ods.un.org

daccess-ods.un.org

说过“搁置争议,共同开发”这个说法,但可 能半句 争议领土的主权属于中国”。

crisisgroup.org

crisisgroup.org

Many hear the term “setting aside the disputes and joint development”, but are unaware of the second half of China’s statement: “The [...]

sovereignty of the

[...]

disputed territories belongs to China”.

crisisgroup.org

crisisgroup.org

当有一个或一个以上的选任职位须在同样条件下同时填补时,每一有权投票 的代表可在所投的票中选举与需填补的职位同数的候选人;在第一 获得票且得票 选人当选,其人 过应补职位。

daccess-ods.un.org

daccess-ods.un.org

When one or more elective places are to be filled at one time under the same conditions, each delegation entitled to vote may cast a vote for as many candidates as there are places to be filled, and those candidates, in a number not exceeding the number of such places, obtaining in the first ballot a majority of the votes cast and the largest number of votes shall be elected.

daccess-ods.un.org

daccess-ods.un.org

当有一个或一个以上的选任空缺须在同样条件下同时补足时,应由在第一获得且得票 选人当选,其人 过应补缺额。

daccess-ods.un.org

daccess-ods.un.org

When one or more elective places are to be filled at one time under the same conditions, those candidates, in a number not exceeding the number of such places, obtaining in the first ballot a majority of the votes cast and the largest number of votes, shall be elected.

daccess-ods.un.org

daccess-ods.un.org

甚麼時候開始 我 視講道理,寧可相信一個人因時制宜的 句半句

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

When do we start attaching little importance to reasons and choosing to believe a remark or two made by a person merely for the sake of expediency?

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

如果僱員在仍須供款期間身體健康出現突變,例如 ⎯⎯句不 患上癌症而急需那些錢救命,又或是家庭出現變故而 需要一筆錢幫助家庭,在這些情況下,要到65歲才可提取那些錢,但 現時又未能提供 行”的選擇,景況是很悲慘的。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

If the health of an employee develops a sudden change when he is still

[...]

making MPF contributions, such as

[...] to put it badly ― suffering from cancer, or he needs a sum of money to help the family because of a sudden change in the family, the employee still needs to wait until he reaches the age of 65 before he can withdraw his MPF benefits, as the option of a "quasi-free choice" scheme [...]

has not yet been offered.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

首先,我會根據我向選民所說 句話 我 會貫徹我在競政綱所作的承諾及對其負責。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

Firstly, I will vote according to what I have told my voters I would do, in other words, my commitment and my accountability to my election platform.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

我在答覆內已經提到,現時我們已考慮到盡量將 接近午夜時分升降的前, 句話 我希望在晚㆖七時、八時、九時及十時這段時 間內 降,以減低十時後的噪音。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

As I have mentioned in my reply, we are considering rescheduling the landings and take-offs later in the evening to earlier hours in the evening.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

現時所作更改,目的在縮短單位推出市場及實際入 伙兩者的相距時間,從而減投機 及轉售的時間,使樓 推高。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

The changes to it aim to shorten the time between putting flats on the market and

[...]

actual occupation, and so to

[...] reduce the time available for speculative sales and re-sales to push up [...]

the cost of flats.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

代理主席,恐怕時間非常有限,我只可 是即使是 美國這個相對而言最自由的社會,無論在金權上還是在政權上,只要 大家有留意,也看到Fox News經巴馬政他們,更杯葛他們。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

Deputy President, as I am running out of time, I can only say

[...] one more thing. As Members may aware, even in the United States, the relatively freest society in terms of tycoonocracy or political power, the Fox News always complains of being neglected or sometimes even boycotted by the OBAMA regime.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

代理主席女士,由於時間關係,我只 衷心希望市民的期望 停留在盼望階段。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

Madam deputy, because time is running out, I

[...]

have only one thing to add: I

[...] sincerely hope that people's expectations will not remain expectations and they must be met.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

對 每 個 發 一 個 獨 特 的 相 關 碼,可 以 使 同 一 頻 譜。

zte.com.cn

zte.com.cn

By assigning a unique correlating code to each transmitter, several simultaneous conversations can share the same frequency allocations.

wwwen.zte.com.cn

wwwen.zte.com.cn

然而, 行 政長官 在 施 政 報 告 中 , 竟 然半 句 產 的 問題也沒有 提及, 令 社 會 上為不多 負 資 產 人士非 常 失望。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

Yet the Chief Executive has made absolutely no mention of the problem of negative equity in his policy address, thereby disappointing quite a number of members of society who are owners of negative equity.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

在 GRL 的研究中,不多半參與公司表示 他們在老 身上運用認知功能測試作為 標準規則,或計劃在 2008 年推行這個規則。

genre.com

genre.com

In the GRL survey, nearly half of the companies participating reported they use [...]

cognitive function tests on elderly applicants

[...]

as a standard practice, or had made plans to implement the practice in 2008.

genre.com

genre.com

然而,馬局長 現在說要離開,行政長半句話 有說過,稱讚他的 立法會議 員。

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

It is mainly Members of the Legislative Council who have been heaping praises on him.

legco.gov.hk

legco.gov.hk

除非有人如此要求式表決 回,否則主席宣佈決議案已獲舉手 形式表決通過或一致通過,或獲某特定 通過 過,並且載述於本 公司議事程序紀錄之簿冊中,有關決議結果即為有關事實之確證,而無須證明 投票贊成或反對該決議案之數目或比例。

asiasat.com

asiasat.com

Unless a poll be so demanded and not withdrawn, a declaration by the Chairman that a resolution has on a show of hands been carried or carried unanimously, or by a particular majority, [...]

or lost, and an entry to

[...]

that effect in the book containing the minutes of the proceedings of the Company shall be conclusive evidence of the fact without proof of the number or proportion of the votes recorded in favour or against such resolution.

asiasat.com

asiasat.com

我們繼品,已在的長 設新商務客艙;而提升經濟客艙的計劃亦訂於 本年底完成。

swirepacific.com

swirepacific.com

We have continued to invest in our product, and have now passed the halfway mark in the process [...]

of equipping our long haul

[...]

fleet with the new Business Class cabin.

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swirepacific.com

(b) 在公司欠债权人的所有债务被清偿前 据各会员国认购公司股本的比例向会员国 进行资产分割,并且只有在理事会超 理事以超过 定后, 才能进行上述资产分割。

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(b) No distribution shall be made to members on account of their subscriptions to the capital stock of the Corporation until all

[...]

liabilities to creditors shall have been

[...] discharged or provided for and until the Board of Governors, by vote of a majority of the Governors exercising a majority of the total voting power, shall have decided to make such distribution.

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话不投机是什么意思?

话不投机是一个汉语成语,拼音是huà bù tóu jī,意思是形容话说到一起。 出自元·王子一《误入桃源》第三折。

酒逢知己千杯少 话不投机半句多什么意思?

字面意思:“喝酒遇到谈得上的对象,饮上千杯无聊;但如果遇到无法攀谈的人,说了半句话也嫌”。

酒逢知己千杯少 话不投机半句多 出自哪里?

這是出自宋. 歐陽修《遙思故人》的其中二詩。 全詩為「酒逢知己千杯少話不投機半句多;遙知湖上一樽,能憶天涯萬里人。」 歐陽修在許州西湖上跟朋友喝美酒,大家非常投契,喝罷美酒之後,二人將會分離。

酒逢知己千杯少 下一句是什么?

酒逢知己千杯少,话不投机半句多。 遥知湖上一樽,能忆天涯万里人。